Help, once

If you need a person, start here.

This is the same set of lines as "Help, once" in Running with Llamas. The chapters point there. They do not print the lines again. The book is general education. It is not care.

Talk with a doctor, a psychologist, or a counselor if low mood, anxiety, or a loss of interest lasts more than about two weeks or crowds out work, relationships, or ordinary tasks. If the symptoms are severe or getting worse, do not wait out those two weeks. Do the same if sleep has been badly broken on most nights for about three months or more, if alcohol, drugs, food, gambling, or screens have become the way you cope and you cannot cut back, if you have chest pain, breathlessness, fainting, or a sudden change in weight, or if a past trauma is still running the day.

If you might hurt yourself, or you are worried about someone else, contact help now. You do not have to be the person in crisis to ask. "I don't know what to say, and I need a person" is enough to start. A general chatbot is not one of these lines, and it is not a therapist.

Emergency numbers

Use local emergency services when a life is in danger. Official pages confirm these numbers:

Crisis lines

The book's Help, once page does not list a New Zealand number. If you are there, use the directory or local emergency services. Do not treat a missing line on this page as a reason to wait.

These lines are for listening and for getting you to a person. They are not a diagnosis. If a number fails, use the directory or local emergency services. Numbers change. This page was checked on 10 November 2026, the same day as the book's notes.